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I found out I had Down's syndrome aged 23 – people don’t believe me

13 July 2023 , 15:08
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I found out I had Down's syndrome aged 23 – people don’t believe me
I found out I had Down's syndrome aged 23 – people don’t believe me

A MUM who was diagnosed with Down's syndrome aged 23 says people "don't believe" she has the condition.

Ashley Zambelli discovered she has mosaic Down's syndrome in February 2023 after undergoing genetic testing which revealed she has an extra chromosome.

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Ashley Zambelli was diagnosed with Down's syndrome aged 23Credit: SWNS
The mum with husband Taylor and daughters Katherine, Evelyn and Lillian
The mum with husband Taylor and daughters Katherine, Evelyn and LillianCredit: SWNS

Growing up, she said she struggled with knee dislocation, jaw issues affecting her movement of it, and a high heart rate.

Doctors never connected the problems until they looked at her reproductive history.

They noticed three of her six pregnancies had a Down's syndrome diagnosis which was unusual for someone so young, Ashley said.

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Medics then carried out genetic tests and discovered she had mosaic Down's syndrome, or mosaicism - a rare disorder that results in an extra copy of chromosome 21.

Ashley, a stay-at-home mum, from Macomb Township in Michigan, US, said: "People say 'you don't look like you have it'.

"Even I was in a lot of disbelief. I didn't know it existed.

"A lot of people associate it as a facial disability but having a mosaic condition means it is not always visible to the eye."

When Ashley was born, she didn't have any traits associated with Down's syndrome, she said.

But from the age of 12, her knee caps dislocated "all the time" and she struggled with comprehensive learning at school.

"Test taking was awful," she said.

"I had jaw dysfunction, my knee caps were constantly dislocating and my shoulder was permanently out of the socket.

"My heart was also always racing. I was always getting out of breath."

It took until she was 23 weeks pregnant with her third child, Katherine, who was diagnosed at 14 weeks, to connect the dots.

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Ashley had previously had a miscarriage in 2019 and doctors had discovered the baby had Down's syndrome.

She gave birth to her first child, Lilian, two, who also has Down's syndrome, in December 2020.

Her second daughter, Evelyn, one, who was born in December 2021 doesn't have the genetic condition.

Ashley said: "They hadn't seen someone with three confirmed cases of Down syndrome.

"They said I was really young - so thought there must be something else causing this."

Having mosaic Down's syndrome gives her a 50 per cent chance of having children with an extra chromosome.

Ashley said: "I was very happy to find out."

The mother-of-three - who doesn't have the facial characteristics of someone with Down's syndrome - now has an explanation for her problems.

She has lower sitting ears, low muscle tone, a jaw disorder, trouble with short term memory, and inappropriate sinus tachycardia - meaning she often has a heart rate higher than hundred beats per minute.

She said she often struggles to understand most humour and can say things without realising they might be offensive.

Ashley, who lives with her husband Taylor Doyle, 28, a restaurant worker, wants to encourage others to get genetic testing.

She said: "People need to not see it as a bad thing.

"It's a tool to be prepared."

She also hopes to create a community for people with mosaic Down's syndrome.

Ashley with Lillian, who has Down's syndrome and was born in December 2020
Ashley with Lillian, who has Down's syndrome and was born in December 2020Credit: SWNS
The mum said people don't believe she has the condition
The mum said people don't believe she has the conditionCredit: SWNS
Ashley, from Macomb Township in Michigan, US, as a one-year-old
Ashley, from Macomb Township in Michigan, US, as a one-year-oldCredit: SWNS

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