DEIDRE SAYS: Dear Gabbie... I’M sure you’ll be feeling sick with guilt but the important thing now is to learn from this experience.
You certainly need to develop the trust and communication in your relationship before seriously considering marriage.
Even though Ethan’s behaviour was suspicious, you jumped to the conclusion he was cheating, without any evidence. Were you let down in the past by an ex, or perhaps a parent?
If you are going to make a success of your relationship in the long term you need to learn to work through your concerns with Ethan.
It’s simply not fair or mature to seek revenge for imagined slights.
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