All news by author: Sally Land

DEAR DEIDRE: MY grandson has been off school for a few months and I am really worried about him.He is nearly 13, in his second year at secondary schoo

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE tried everything I can to get my wife interested in sex but nothing works.I’m 59 and she’s 57. We have been married for 30 yea

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband went into hospital for a routine operation on his knee and never woke up again.His sudden death has completely devastated me.

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been having great sex with my friend’s mum, and she wants to get a divorce and run away with me.The problem is I don’t want to

DEAR DEIDRE: MY fiancée ended our relationship because of my porn addiction.I’m 45 and my ex is 40.We were together for more than ten years but fou

DEAR DEIDRE: OUR daughter has always been selfish and self-centred but her latest trick has really taken the biscuit.One month ago she and my grandson

It's never pleasant finishing with someone you have cared for.Many people prolong the inevitable by making excuses, ducking and diving and even lying.

DEAR DEIDRE: This isn’t something I’m proud to admit, but I went to bed with my partner’s teenage daughter.At 23, she’s actually nearer

DEAR DEIDRE: Years ago I slept around, and now it feels like I’m being punished for it.My boyfriend keeps meeting guys I had sex with in the past, a

DEAR DEIDRE: Modern dating culture is making it impossible for me to find a partner.Although I enjoy sex as much as the next guy, I’m not interested

DEAR DEIDRE: My violent ex destroyed my confidence, but with your help I’m putting my life back on track and starting a career as a big bust model.A

DEAR DEIDRE: Every day I live in constant fear because of my stalker.No matter where I go or what I do, I know I’m being watched and it’s slowly r

DEAR DEIDRE: Although it’s five years since my lesbian lover dumped me by text, I can’t get over her.The worst thing is, I’m still in the closet

DEAR DEIDRE: My fling dumped me because I flopped in bed.I’m 36, she’s 30 and we met on an online dating app.We’d been seeing each other for two

DEAR DEIDRE: I CHEATED on my girlfriend with my gay male best mate, and I don’t even feel guilty about it.Although I’ve never been unfaithfu

DEAR DEIDRE: BEFORE he died, my partner made my life a living hell. He was abusive for years, and I thought I’d be happy once he was gone. But inst

DEAR DEIDRE: My best mate kept cancelling our gym sessions because she was having a sexual fling - with my dad.I don’t know whether to laugh or cry.

DEAR DEIDRE: Every day is one more round of arguing because my wife caught me gazing at her sister 15 years ago when we were on holiday. I’ve never

DEAR DEIDRE: I persuaded my wife to attend a sex party and now she’s worried I’ll think she’s easy.We’ve been married for 10 years and we have

DEAR DEIDRE: I’m infatuated with a younger woman at work.Even though I’m happily married, I think about her constantly, and I don’t know how to

DEAR DEIDRE: If I end my 20-year relationship, I’m worried my partner will go off the rails. He won’t cope without me.I’m a 37 year-old woman, w

DEAR DEIDRE: HAVING a threesome was always my biggest fantasy, but now I fear it’s ruined my sex life.I’m a man of 28 and my girlfriend is 25. We

DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife only seems interested in sex if we are planning on making a baby – and we have four kids already.I’ve become so frustrated du

DEAR DEIDRE: ALTHOUGH I have always fancied men around my age, I have never gone through with meeting one.I am a man of 58 and have a 55-year-old wife

DEAR DEIDRE: GOOGLE Translate proved to me that my husband was having sex with a Frenchwoman.Now I feel I can’t move on with my life until I’ve un