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Mum, 28, told 'filling toilet with blood' was normal faces terrifying diagnosis

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Watch as Kelly Spill details her battle against stage three bowel cancer
Watch as Kelly Spill details her battle against stage three bowel cancer

A MUM has revealed how she received a terrifying diagnosis after doctors initially thought her symptoms were related to pregnancy.

Kelly Spill, from New Jersey, was 28 and a new mum when she was told she had stage three bowel cancer.

Kelly Spill first noticed symptoms when she was eight months pregnant with her son Jayce, which continued for months qhiquqihkiqerprw
Kelly Spill first noticed symptoms when she was eight months pregnant with her son Jayce, which continued for monthsCredit: YouTube/Stand Up To Cancer
The mum, from New Jersey, was 28 when she was told she had stage three bowel cancer
The mum, from New Jersey, was 28 when she was told she had stage three bowel cancerCredit: YouTube/Stand Up To Cancer

She had suffered blood in her stool and constipation during her pregnancy with son Jayce, but multiple doctors said she had haemorrhoids, she said.

One day, she used the bathroom and filled the toilet bowl with blood, and was told by her mum to go to hospital, but her concerns were brushed aside again.

After multiple attempts to be treated seriously, she was given a colonoscopy and was diagnosed with the disease at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center.

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It was a huge shock to Kelly and her partner, not only because Kelly was so young, but because they had planned a big family.

Doctors delivered the crushing news that her treatment would mean she may be unlikely to have another child with her partner.

Speaking in a video for Stand Up To Cancer, Kelly said: “I’ve always wanted a big family.

"When my baby was six months old, I already wanted another baby.

“It’s crazy to think about, but one moment can change your whole, entire life.

“One day, I went to the doctor and was told I had stage three cancer and most likely would never be able to carry another baby.

“It was one of the hardest things to hear.”

Bowel cancer is now the third most common cancer in Britain, with 41,596 Brits diagnosed in 2021.

It is the UK’s second deadliest cancer, claiming 16,000 lives each year.

However, nine in 10 patients survives it if diagnosed at the earliest stage, according to Bowel Cancer UK.

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The Sun’s No Time 2 Lose campaign, spearheaded by Dame Deborah James, has called for earlier testing and treatments to improve survival rates in Britain.

Treatment for early stage bowel cancer usually involves chemotherapy, radiation and surgery.

However, while this is often successful in eliminating the cancer, it can lead to a range of side effects, including infertility.

Having swollen, bloated ovaries near my tumour was incredibly painful

Kelly SpillBowel cancer survivor

Kelly had been experiencing symptoms of bowel cancer while pregnant and after birth, but was reassured that it was normal.

The key symptoms of bowel cancer are a change in normal bowel habits, such as needing to go more often, diarrhoea and constipation.

When Jayce was five months old, Kelly lost her appetite, had fatigue and generally didn't feel well, she told TODAY.

When she saw the pool of blood in the toilet and visited the emergency room, a doctor again told her she had internal haemorrhoids and to "lay off spicy foods".

She began seeking the second opinion of other doctors, and that's when things started moving faster.

Kelly was devastated when she found out she may never be able to get pregnant again because of her illness.

Thankfully she was invited to a clinical trial that could preserve her fertility while also getting rid her of her cancer.

She told Business Insider: “On the doctor's advice, I underwent fertility treatments and an egg retrieval soon after I was diagnosed and before treatment started. 

“That was truly the worst part of this experience. 

“Having swollen, bloated ovaries near my tumour was incredibly painful. But my husband and I ended up with four embryos — hope for the future family we envisioned.”

But thankfully for Kelly, she ended up having another child naturally.

Last year, Kelly had her daughter Maya, two years after she recovered from her treatment.

While 90 per cent of cancer cases are in the over-50s, ten per cent are in younger adults - and the rates are increasing.

The Sun’s No Time 2 Lose campaign has been pushing hard to raise awareness of this for years, successfully urging the Government to lower the bowel cancer screening age from 60 to 50.

Doctors delivered the crushing news that her treatment would mean she may be unlikely to have another child - but she got pregnant two years after recovering from treatment
Doctors delivered the crushing news that her treatment would mean she may be unlikely to have another child - but she got pregnant two years after recovering from treatmentCredit: YouTube/Stand Up To Cancer
Kelly was devastated when she found out she may never be able to get pregnant again
Kelly was devastated when she found out she may never be able to get pregnant againCredit: YouTube/Stand Up To Cancer

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