DEIDRE SAYS: YOU played with fire and got burned. Clara got tired of your platitudes and has tried to put an end to your marriage herself by going to your wife.
There is no sugar-coating this – it’s a car crash.
But please don’t run straight to Clara, which is exactly what she wants you to do. Take time to work out your next steps carefully – especially now a baby is involved.
If Emily will consider trying to rebuild your marriage, you will need to be genuinely regretful and determined to make it up.
My support pack Cheating – Can You Get Over It? will help.
