DEAR MONICA: JEALOUSY does not only affect romantic relationships – it can also come between friends and family and is always rooted in insecurity.
Your self-doubt drove the wedge between you and your best pal. If you continue on this track you are likely to lose your friendship with Vanessa.
Jealousy is often rooted in low self-esteem, a fear of abandonment or past history.
You need to be honest with yourself about your behaviour and be prepared to look at what may have triggered those insecure feelings.
Another positive step would be to apologise to Vanessa and discuss this with her.
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