DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I was a small boy, my sister used to dress me up in her clothes, and I loved it.
Now I’m 18, I prefer to wear knickers instead of pants, because it turns me on.
My sister’s three years older than me and liked to treat me like her doll when I was five.
She never knew how much I enjoyed wearing girls’ dresses. But I never forgot the feeling.
I started buying women’s underwear two years ago and wearing it in secret. It’s so much more comfy and sexy.

I think I’d like to try a dress next but I’d die if my mates found out. Am I weird?
DEIDRE SAYS: You’re not weird. In fact, you’d be surprised how many men like dressing in women’s clothes and underwear.
It’s called cross-dressing and doesn’t mean you’re gay or transgender. See my Cross-dressing support pack for more information.