All news by author: Edited Sally Land

DEIDRE SAYS: Jealousy is a very powerful and potentially destructive emotion that can torment you and hurt your loved ones.It can affect anyone - man

DEIDRE SAYS: With up to five per cent of the population believed to have narcissistic personality disorder, it’s very likely that you’ll run into

DEIDRE SAYS:Brits have an average of 7.5 relationships during their lifetime, so break-ups are common. And many struggle how to get through the

DEIDRE SAYS:If your partner puts you down and makes you constantly second-guess yourself, they may be gaslighting you.Gaslighting is common in r

DEIDRE SAYS:Watching porn is now a mainstream activity, with over 50% of men and 16% of women admitting to watching it regularly.Some couples wa

DEIDRE SAYS: A third of British women aren’t interested in sex - and while it’s normal for our libido to lull, many don’t understand why. Ever

I’M thinking of returning to my home town because living out my other half’s retirement dream by the coast has made me feel disconnected – but m

SINCE we divorced, my now ex-wife has vanished and won’t let me visit our children.I’m 46 and she is 43.We have three beautiful boys together but

DEAR DEIDRE: OUR new neighbour is a peeping Tom.He keeps finding ways to spy on me and my teenage girls despite my efforts to fit a garden fence and g

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner says romance and passion don’t come naturally to him – but I’ve found endless messages where he’s proclaimed his love

DEIDRE SAYS:IT’S always confusing when someone you like ghosts you – especially a friend.Unfortunately your friends took the easy way out.On

DEAR DEIDRE: I GAVE my girlfriend her dream threesome and now she is refusing mine. I feel cheated.We always got a kick sharing our fantasies.She want

DEAR DEIDRE: THE men I meet only want me for one thing – money.I am an attractive 50-year-old woman.I’m independent and keep myself in good shape.

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband has cheated on me throughout our marriage but each time I try to kick him out my children blackmail me into taking him back.I

DEAR DEIDRE: TWO years ago I stood a guy up as I really liked him and was too nervous to go through with the date.I have never forgotten him.I always

DEAR DEIDRE: MY FIANCÉE broke off our engagement because of constant friction around our parenting styles.The straw that broke the camel’s back cam

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE finally broken free of my abusive ex but I’m struggling to cope.I haven’t slept or eaten for five days and my children have no

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I suggested that we try a threesome, my girlfriend was terribly suspicious.She worried that she wasn’t enough for me sexually and

DEAR DEIDRE: IF I can’t teach our daughter to sleep through the night my husband says he will move in with his brother.I’m 38 and my husband is 43

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN her mum is at work, my 18-year-old stepdaughter keeps flirting with me.I’m 45 and have been with her mum for three years. We recen

DEAR DEIDRE: The memory of my mum asking to live with me, or my younger brother, rather than live in a home to see out her final days is clearer than

DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN’T get the images of my fiancée having sex with her ex out of my head.I might be engaged to her but he is always hovering in the

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M probably the oldest virgin who has ever written to you, but at 36 I’ve now got the chance to change all that.And the thought of i

DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend says he’s tired or not in the mood when I ask him why he keeps losing his erection.It’s been happening a lot over the pa

DEAR DEIDRE: I AM having doubts about my relationship because I am irrationally convinced my lover is going to ghost me.I am a 32-year-old man and my