DEAR DEIDRE: My violent ex destroyed my confidence, but with your help I’m putting my life back on track and starting a career as a big bust model.
After years in a violent relationship, I wrote to you for help.
I knew I needed to leave my abusive partner, but I couldn’t find the strength.
I’m 28 and he’s 38. We were together for six years.
During that time he beat me and destroyed my self-esteem, making me feel so ugly that nobody else would want me.
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You confirmed that he wasn’t going to change, and would only get more violent.
You sent your Abusive Partner support pack and recommended I contact Women’s Aid (womensaid.org.uk) and the National Domestic Abuse Helpline (0808 2000 247).
Talking really helped, but I still wasn’t ready.
Then my partner battered me again, leaving me covered in bruises.
This time, I contacted the police and got him removed from the flat. He can’t come near me.
Since then, I’ve started rebuilding my life and now I’m starting a new career as a big bust model - something I would never have had the confidence to do while I was with him.
Thank you Deidre.
DEIDRE SAYS: I’m so glad you were able to find the right help and get away from your ex.
Good luck with the modelling.