All news on the topic: Dear Deidre on Sex

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been having great sex with my friend’s mum, and she wants to get a divorce and run away with me.The problem is I don’t want to

DEAR DEIDRE: MY fiancée ended our relationship because of my porn addiction.I’m 45 and my ex is 40.We were together for more than ten years but fou

DEAR DEIDRE: OUR daughter has always been selfish and self-centred but her latest trick has really taken the biscuit.One month ago she and my grandson

DEAR DEIDRE: This isn’t something I’m proud to admit, but I went to bed with my partner’s teenage daughter.At 23, she’s actually nearer

DEAR DEIDRE: Years ago I slept around, and now it feels like I’m being punished for it.My boyfriend keeps meeting guys I had sex with in the past, a

DEAR DEIDRE: Modern dating culture is making it impossible for me to find a partner.Although I enjoy sex as much as the next guy, I’m not interested

DEAR DEIDRE: My violent ex destroyed my confidence, but with your help I’m putting my life back on track and starting a career as a big bust model.A

DEAR DEIDRE: Although it’s five years since my lesbian lover dumped me by text, I can’t get over her.The worst thing is, I’m still in the closet

DEAR DEIDRE: My fling dumped me because I flopped in bed.I’m 36, she’s 30 and we met on an online dating app.We’d been seeing each other for two

DEAR DEIDRE: I CHEATED on my girlfriend with my gay male best mate, and I don’t even feel guilty about it.Although I’ve never been unfaithfu

DEAR DEIDRE: My best mate kept cancelling our gym sessions because she was having a sexual fling - with my dad.I don’t know whether to laugh or cry.

DEAR DEIDRE: Every day is one more round of arguing because my wife caught me gazing at her sister 15 years ago when we were on holiday. I’ve never

DEAR DEIDRE: I persuaded my wife to attend a sex party and now she’s worried I’ll think she’s easy.We’ve been married for 10 years and we have

DEAR DEIDRE: HAVING a threesome was always my biggest fantasy, but now I fear it’s ruined my sex life.I’m a man of 28 and my girlfriend is 25. We

DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife only seems interested in sex if we are planning on making a baby – and we have four kids already.I’ve become so frustrated du

DEAR DEIDRE: ALTHOUGH I have always fancied men around my age, I have never gone through with meeting one.I am a man of 58 and have a 55-year-old wife

DEAR DEIDRE: GOOGLE Translate proved to me that my husband was having sex with a Frenchwoman.Now I feel I can’t move on with my life until I’ve un

DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife is boring in bed, and it’s driving me so crazy with frustration that I’m thinking of hiring an escort.She just lies there whi

DEAR DEIDRE: WEARING nylon stockings turns me on, and now I’d like to incorporate them in sex sessions with my wife.The problem is, whenever I sugge

DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife messages other men behind my back while she’s in the loo, but I don’t have the heart to kick her out.Even though I’ve seen

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my troubled partner ended our off again/on again relationship and moved to another city, I was bereft.Although I understood that he

DEAR DEIDRE: Although he flatly denies it, I’m certain my husband has been having a gay affair.He went to a music festival with a man he met in a fa

DEAR DEIDRE: After years of waiting, I’m starting to lose hope that I’ll ever have the family I’ve always dreamed of.All I want is to be a mothe

DEAR DEIDRE: Watching my wife have sex with my best friend is my ultimate fantasy.I can’t stop thinking about it, and now I’m plucking up the cour

DEAR DEIDRE: I AM miserable in a sexless marriage and feel like giving my wife an ultimatum – either she finds us a counsellor or I’ll divorce her