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I am really worried for my grandson - he has been off school for months
DEAR DEIDRE: MY grandson has been off school for a few months and I am really worried about him.He is nearly 13, in his second year at secondary schoo
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It's only a matter of time until I have sex with my step-daughter
DEAR DEIDRE: This isn’t something I’m proud to admit, but I went to bed with my partner’s teenage daughter.At 23, she’s actually nearer
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My wife only wants sex if we're planning on making a baby - I'm so frustrated
DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife only seems interested in sex if we are planning on making a baby – and we have four kids already.I’ve become so frustrated du
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I'm at my wits end with my troublesome daughter
DEAR DEIDRE: I’m at my wits’ end with my daughter who has been nothing but trouble since she became a teen.I’ve tried everything to help her but
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I'm terrified I'll never have the family I dreamed of
DEAR DEIDRE: After being told that my chances of having children were slim, it felt like a miracle to discover I was pregnant.So when I miscarried nin
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I'm smitten with my daughter's flatmate
DEAR DEIDRE: Although I know people won’t approve, I can’t stop lusting after a man who is 30 years younger than me.He’s my daughter’s friend
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My partner wants me to move in, but I don't want to be a stepmum
DEAR DEIDRE: My partner wants me to move in together - but he has two young children, and I don’t want to be a part-time stepmum.I’ve got grown-up
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My ex picks up and drops my daughter whenever he pleases
DEAR DEIDRE: My ex-partner kicked us out into the gutter, but he still calls the shots about when he can and can’t see our daughter.I let him walk a
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I am broken by rape allegations against my son by his ex-girlfriend
DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE my son was arrested for allegedly raping his ex-girlfriend, I have been drinking every night to blot out my pain and anxiety.He is
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My daughter, 13, has started boozing with her mum after we announced divorce
DEAR DEIDRE: MY 13-year-old daughter is drinking heavily with her mother, and I’m so worried.I’m in my forties and split from my wife last year be
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My boyfriend's 12-year-old daughter is badly behaved and driving us apart
DEAR DEIDRE: AS soon as I moved in with my boyfriend the cracks in our relationship began to show.We had been together for just over a year when we st
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My husband has run off with lover the same age as our eldest daughter
DEAR DEIDRE:MY husband has moved into our motorhome and won’t tell me where he is.I’m convinced he is using it to have sex with his lover who is t
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I told my ex I didn't want to get back together – she won’t let me see my kids
DEAR DEIDRE: After falling back into bed with my ex, I told her I’d made a mistake and I didn’t want to get back together.Now she’s fallen pregn
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I feel my heart sink every time I see my girlfriend liking other men’s photos
DEAR DEIDRE: I FEEL my heart sink every time I see my girlfriend liking other men’s photos.I’ve asked her to stop so many times and she says she w
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My daughter is being bullied at school after taking an interest in politics
DEAR DEIDRE: MY daughter’s email to a politician has led to her getting bullied in school.She’s in Year 11 and has always wanted to make a differe
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My out of control daughter is pushing me to the edge
DEAR DEIDRE: I feel like giving up on my daughter. Her addiction to alcohol has become so damaging that I’m seriously thinking about walking away.
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I don’t want my evil family anywhere near my son
DEAR DEIDRE: My family is obsessed with meeting my baby son but I don’t want them anywhere near him.He’s two weeks old and I want to protect him f
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Youngest grandson flies into rages and his mum cannot control him
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my partner’s younger grandson flies into rages he lashes out at the older one, who ends up covered in bruises.The two are brothers
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I don't know if my daughter genuinely has ADHD or just having a mid-life crisis
DEAR DEIDRE: IS my daughter having a mid-life crisis, or does she genuinely have ADHD?She is in her 40s, and it seems to me that she is sabotaging her
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My ex disappeared with my kids after meeting her new man
DEAR DEIDRE: Since my ex-girlfriend met her new partner, she has moved out of town and won’t let me see my kids. I am 39 and she is 36. The childre
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How can I help my depressed student daughter who is miles away
DEAR DEIDRE: Worrying about my depressed, drug-taking daughter is affecting my own mental health.She lives 200 miles away at university and I don’t
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We have been pushed out of grandchild's life by our daughter's new partner
DEAR DEIDRE: WE are so worried about our daughter and grandchild and want to know how we can help them.Our new son-in-law has told us his mum and dad
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My son is spending the money he owes me
DEAR DEIDRE: My son owes me thousands of pounds and shows no sign of paying it back.I have no idea how to approach this with him. I feel resentful and
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I've had enough of my Dad's lies
DEAR DEIDRE: My dad tells so many lies it’s unreal. He wants everyone to feel sorry for him but I have finally had enough and completely disowned hi
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My partner's son is pushing us to breaking point
DEAR DEIDRE: My partner’s son is chipping away at my relationship with his mum and it’s pushing us to breaking point.He has been living with us si